am i being picky?

I just received the following email:

Do you really know how to forward e-mails? 50% of us do; 50% DO NOT.Do you wonder why you get viruses or junk mail? Do you hate it? Every time you forward an e-mail there is information left over from the people who got the message before you, namely their e-mail addresses & names. As the messages get forwarded along, the list of addresses build s, and builds, and builds, and all it takes is for some poor sap to get a virus, and his or her computer can send that virus to every E-mail address that has come across his computer. Or, someone can take all of those addresses and sell them or send junk mail to them in the hopes that you will go to the site and he will make five cents for each hit. That's right, all of that inconvenience over a nickel! How do you stop it? Well, there are several easy steps:
  1. When you forward an e-mail, DELETE all of the other addresses that appear in the body of the message (at the top). That's right, DELETE them. Highlight them and delete them, backspace them, cut them, whatever it is you know how to do. It only takes a second. You MUST click the "Forward" button first and then you will have full editing capabilities against the body and headers of the message. If you don't click on "Forward" first, you won't be able to edit the message at all.
  2. Whenever you send an e-mail to more than one person, do NOT use the To: or Cc: fields for adding e-mail addresses. Always use the BCC:(blind carbon copy) field for listing the e-mail addresses. This way the people you send to will only see their own e-mail address. If you don't see your BCC: option click on where it says To: and your address list will appear. Highlight the address and choose BCC: and that's it, it's that easy. When you send to BCC: your message will automatically say "Undisclosed Recipients" in the "TO:" field of the people who receive it. If that phrase does not appear, type your own email address in the "TO" field, but put everyone else's in the BCC field.
  3. Remove any "FW :" in the subject line. You can re-name the subject if you wish or even fix spelling.
  4. ALWAYS hit your Forward button from the actual e-mail you are reading. Ever get those e-mails that you have to open 10 pages to read the one page with the information on it? By Forwarding from the actual page you wish someone to view, you stop them from having to open many e-mails just to see what you sent. (AMEN!) If you can't forward from that page, "Copy" the info and then open a new email blank page and "Paste".
  5. Have you ever gotten an email that is a petition? It states a position and asks you to add your name and address and to forward it to 10 or 15 people or your entire address book. The email can be forwarded on and on and can collect thousands of names and email addresses. A FACT: The completed petition is actually worth a couple of bucks to a professional spammer because of the wealth of valid names and email addresses contained therein. If you want to support the petition, send it as your own personal letter to the intended recipient. Your position may carry more weight as a personal letter than laundry list of names and email address on a petition. (actually, if you think about it, who is supposed to send the petition in to whatever ca use it supports? And don't believe the ones that say that the email is being traced, it just ain't so!)
One of the main ones I hate are the ones that say something like, -Send this email to 10 people and you'll see something great run across your screen.-Or sometimes they just tease you by saying something really cute will happen. IT AINT GONNA HAPPEN!!!!! (Trust me, Im still seeing some of the same ones that I waited on 10 years ago!) Idont let the bad luck ones scare me either, they get trashed. (could be why I haven't won the lottery) Before you forward an Amber Alert, or a Virus Alert, or some of the other ones floating around nowadays, check them out before you forward them. Most of them are junk mail that have been circling the net for YEARS! Just about everything you receive in an email that is in question can be checked out at Snopes. It is really easy to find out if it is real or not. If it is not, please don't pass it on. So please, in the future, let's stop the junk mail and the viruses.

Finally, here's an idea!!! Let's send this to everyone we know (but trip my address off first, please). This is something that SHOULD be forwarded.
My thoughts?
~I found it to be informative and despite the occasional typo, I didn't grind my teeth as I read it (am I the only one who grimaces a bit before scrolling down the page on *most* forwards?).
~I think there's a lot of useful information in it and wouldn't it be great if the owners of the 6000 addresses that appeared in the forward along with me would take the message to heart?
~Also, my right index finger is currently having spasms from clicking on those little envelopes to get to the heart of the message. I'm glad Suzeeee thought this was "the best forward ever", and that Nana sent it on to Tim-tim (at school). Nothing like a little positive community building.
~Do I have to add Suzeeee, Nana, and Tim-tim (at school) to my Holiday card list?

I humbly submit that maybe rule 1 should be moved down a notch to make room for:
  1. Read the email you're about to forward. Read the whole thing, including rule number 4. Your title as Fasty McForward might be jeopardized by the time that it will take, but the forwardees will thank you for it.
All in favor?



Jacqueline said...

Aye, Aye! Hear, Hear! (or is that eye, eye! here, here!? I dunno).

Amen, sister and thank you!

Lenka said...


eye, eye, ear, ear, one nose and A-man!!!

I just wish everyone would follow all the rules including sister's addition!!

And that goes for Dancing with the Stars too... (go to "the Porch" for more on that)

Mom101 said...

I second your rule #1. Good God, are there really still people who don't know how to forward emails out there?

oh yeah, my inlaws.

leading me to my own rule#1: Go there before every forwarding anything alarmist to anyone.